[*Quotes/highlights:*] “…we are beginning to see a metaphor for psychological realities & that ‘following the script’ has a broader meaning for a choice that everyone must make in life in growing up,..”
“…specifically, to follow the script laid out for oneself by one’s parents & society in general or to follow one’s inner direction & inner guide in asserting one’s individuality & expressing one’s unique self.”
“These Blue Meanies, esp their leader, are depicted as powerful & cruel, yet sniveling, insecure, weak, & selfish underneath. Their angry & oppressive personas are shown to reveal poor little whining babies behind them.”
“The actions [of the Blue Meanies] are shown to be those of ‘big babies,’ whose gruff exterior must remain intact at all costs, lest their hidden sniveling & hurt little selves be revealed.”
“…those of us who grew up in the Fifties know that the introduction of sex—in the Sixties, as in the ‘sexual revolution’—was a step forward from the hypocritical sameness & plodding repression of the Fifties.”
“The underlying factor that was introduced into the movie causing color & that was also introduced into our society causing all the sociocultural changes that we, usually, complain about…”
“[The underlying factor that was introduced into the movie causing color] is the factor of choosing something different than what is expected by society, than what is expected by the outside.”
“What is introduced in the movie—as it was introduced in our culture—is the preeminence of inner authority in making decisions, as opposed to outer authority.”
“The black-and-white 50s Pleasantville is a representation of a mode of child-rearing—which characterized the 50s—wherein the role of the parents is to ‘mold,’ model, & guide children along paths the parents have deemed to be correct—”
“[The b & w 50s Pleasantville represents a child-rearing mode wherein the parents’ ‘mold’ children in ways parents deem correct—] called the*socializing mode* of child-rearing. The child is expected to be a clone of the parents, a mini-me….”
“By contrast, the colorized Pleasantville represents the mode of child-caring that came out, big time, beginning in the Sixties, wherein the parents’ role is that of ‘bringing out’ from & supporting, encouraging, & helping the child…”
“…[helping the child] to discover what the child’s talents & inherent abilities, feelings,& proclivities are, & then encouraging the child to ‘believe in him/herself’…”
“…[encouraging the child to ‘believe in him/herself’] in the expression of those inherent & inborn good qualities & values—termed the *helping mode* of child-caring.”
“This [helping] mode contains a radically new view of basic human nature. Humans are seen 2b essentially good (even ‘divine’). It is evil & painful events impinging upon the child from the outside—family & society—that are deemed causative…”
“…in taking the child from its natural state of innocence & goodness & inherent unique talents to one wherein the child is corrupted & thus becomes bestial & lacking in inherent good qualities & talents.”
“Therefore the solution is to protect the child from traumas coming from the outside, especially the huge one of feeling unloved through not being seen or respected as a unique individual...”
“…as opposed to being seen as a mere outgrowth or mini-me of a parental entity. & in so doing the parents’ role includes helping the child to discover his or her uniqueness & dispensing unconditional love,..”
“…[unconditional love,] that is, love that is given freely, without the requirement, as in the socializing mode, that the child do & be what the parents want before the child is accepted or shown approval or any emotional warmth.”
“In representing this advanced mode of being (& child-caring) the ‘colorized’ people in Pleasantville open themselves to possibilities never before considered; they stray from the earlier mode requiring strict conformity to parental scripts.”
“Robert Kennedy’s Sixties quote comes to mind as expressing this: ‘Some people look at things as they are & ask, why? I think of things that never were & ask, why not?’”
“This means, then, a capacity to experiment & adventure in one’s life, which, at bottom, involve a belief in questioning authority & thinking for oneself in Sixties terms…”
“Likewise, when people act out of inner rather than outer authority, one can only expect that what happens will be unique, like people are when they are not conforming to external expectations.”
“…this ending expresses the spiritual razor’s edge each of us must cross during our life’s sojourn. Whenever we try to put life, or love, into a box, package,or a gilded cage, it dies or stagnates—just like a boring b&w sitcom world.”
“[Whenever we try to put life, or love, into a box, package, or a gilded cage, it dies or stagnates] Real change & spiritual growth means letting go & opening oneself to the unexpected & the unknown.”
“One of the reasons the movie, *Pleasantville*, so appealed to me is that its view of current events is so akin to that which I have been expressing in other of my more recent writings...”
“…wherein I make the argument that recent events are not evidence of a downfall of civilization, as conservatives as Newt Gingrich & Pat Buchanan would have us believe, but are the necessary ‘birth pains’ of a new age being born.”
“[The Fifties world] was a back-and-white world—a world that covered up its underlying nastiness & evil by repression & denial—psychological defense mechanisms that characterized the WWII Generation especially.”
“The point in the movie, which is so appealing, is that it causes us to look again at the changes in our society occurring because of the various ‘revolutions’ of postmodern times—civil rights, student antiwar, women’s rights, sexual, etc—”
“—& to stop bemoaning the ‘messiness’ that comes with freedom. We have more choice, more freedom now than ever. & this freedom allows us the opportunity for a higher spirituality—some would say the only true spirituality—"
“—which involves the harrowing path of deciding for oneself, based upon one’s ability to intuit or “feel” the correct path, & experiencing the consequences of one’s choices, as opposed to the preordained religiosity of following a script.”
[*Quotes/highlights:*] “*It’s a Wonderful Life* is beloved & timeless, no doubt, because it reassures an entire generation & all those who have had to give up their dreams for whatever reason that their sacrifices were for a higher good…”
[*Quotes/highlights:*] “…[the 60s Generation] were biding their time, waiting—sometimes hopeless that it would ever arrive—for a reversing of the pendulum & a return in society to the ideals & visions of a better world…”
our modern life is permeated with ways we block out ordinary experience to bring our experience in line with things we hold in our head (left brain).
we decide where to go, & zone out in a car to get there,
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then the only experience we allow ourselves is that of being there.
with clocks & appointments & schedules we tell our bodies *when* & *how* it should perform, not feeling (right brain) what our bodies want & need to do in the moment.
[Quotes/highlights:] “Not coincidentally, Millennial Generation parents were predominantly of the Vietnam Gen/ Boomers & Millennials echoed their parent’s more liberal & mind-expanding drug use.” []
[Quotes/highlights:] “…this swinging back & forth of attitudes is mirrored also in the drug usage of these generations: We go from repressive drugs such as alcohol & tobacco with the WWII Generation;” []