5 realisations in being single for a long time —— a thread. 🌸
1. You do not need someone to know your worth. Believing in yourself that you are worth it, should dwell within you. You do not need someone’s validation to believe that your existence matters. You do not need someone to make you feel that you are amazing!
2. You do not easily fall in love with someone. You have learned so much in the past. You already know how to deal with temporary people and you do not feel so bad when they try to walk out of your life. You learn to focus on your self. Self-love is a priority for you.
3. You have become so independent in life. And if love does not come any sooner, you are good with it. You do not stress yourself with the idea of relationship. You strive to be better in life for yourself and not for anyone.
4. You reached that point in life that you already have the sense of maturity on how a relationship works. If ever love happens again, you do not expect it to be like a fairytale anymore. You already have a wider perspective about it. And that is all about sacrifices.
5. You come to realise that nowadays we mistaken infatuation with love. That some relationships do not last because people are too focused on the physical aspects. Love is more than that. It is accepting someone’s totality. ✨
