There is a reason that in scripture it says a man & woman must leave their family & join as one.
This isn’t to be underestimated.
This does NOT mean forsake your family.
This does NOT mean that you should forget you have a family.
This does NOT mean you should not be there for family members should they need you or your help.
Never, as this too is sinful..
This also includes having third parties inside of your union in the form of family members who direct & construct events behind the scenes - puppeteering.
The mark of an individual ready to join as one with another? Is being one within themselves.
Be fully naked before you can be fully sacred, & embark on the journey of union.
Accept your partner to be your new mother & your father. Your child, your brother - your everything.
But wait?
Karmic relationships are also relationships we have w/ family members as they serve as lessons for us on the path.
How willing are you to learn & move forward?
The light is only blinding for those who reside in darkness & shame.
Shame is spiritual bondage.
Fear is spiritual
Understand that unionship is metamorphosis.
Think of the number 8.
Think of the spider.
You can go & return to the same place, or you can weave your own web.