Human relationships are saturated in fear
Fear of rebuke for hurtful actions
Fear of retreat for loss of interest
Fear of affection withheld
Fear of reciprocation that does not come
What he must also understand is that if such a thing happened it would be the road to ruin
For his needs, his preferences, and his desires are not a product of wisdom
Functioning from a place of "relationship correctness" or "loving-kindness" backfires
No matter how clever the fix, it does not work
For the fix itself is motivated by its own need
That is all for now
Namaste.