-- hetero-identifying men who know I'm trans
-- hetero-identifying men who don't know it
-- queer men who know it
-- queer men who don't know it
My experience as a trans woman is very, very common.
Never have I judged closeted (or uncloseted) hetero-identifying males or gay-identifying men who do not identify as bisexual.
Human sexuality is complex. However...
All I care about is being respected as a person. I am not interested in men but have had plenty of warm and respectful conversations with men who expressed interest.
And trans people of color? I can't imagine. That is a whole level of suffering I'll never experience.