1/ Build an unfair advantage that compounds over time (e.g. Specific skills/knowledge)
Compound over time means that the more you put in, the better you get, increasing your defensibility.
It also means that it looks impressive now + will look impressive later.
Ask others: What’s something that’s easy for you to do but hard for others?
AND very difficult for people to reverse engineer?
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The Q to ask when evaluating career decisions:
What can you do, today, that makes it easier for you to have the career opportunities + resources you desire, tomorrow, in a way that compounds and is defensible?
The quickest / most durable way to an unfair advantage (skills, brand, network, $) is starting a successful company, but there are other ways:
Reevaluate your approach to risk:
Example of bad asymmetric bets (gossip, risking injury)
Bad asymmetric bets seem attractive but long-term threaten your integrity.
Honesty is confirming our words to reality. Integrity is confirming reality to our words — keeping promises, fulfilling expectations, Doing The Right Thing, etc
Frictionlessness:
Don’t defect!
Master nonviolent communication and you’ll avoid drama, needless conflicts, and struggles bouncing back (we’re all beginners here :-)
Work well w/ others.
Sleep . No alarm clock
Exercise
Eat food
Meditate
Habit of gratitude.
Day in solitude:
@danielgross talk: blog.ycombinator.com/managing-your-…
So find the people who make you better (Twitter is great place to look) and run to where they are as fast as your legs can possibly carry you.
That’s how you “be at the right place at her right time”
Embrace the goldilocks amount of entitlement - you deserve the chance to prove yourself. That’s it. But that’s a lot.
If you can’t - make a new game. In order to do so, you need to be ok looking dumb:
Be a person who others want to see successful.
- Be directly & legibly impressive
- Inner security & strength
- True & dedicated relationships
- Low personal burn
What’s one thing you could do now that if you did regularly would make a tremendous difference in your personal life? Prioritize this and make it sacred. In general, don’t prioritize your schedule. Schedule your priorities.
The best way is to have a set structure + blame it.
You're bending the world toward your will but not bothered when it doesn't bend
You're striving for more but happy with what you have
You’re telling a story while also acknowledging the futility & inaccuracy of narratives.