"Cunningham Sr., and Jr." - A
Consideration of Mobs and Fear. - August 16 2017, An Essay by Kim Stickrath [Thread]
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Pondering the scene in
#ToKilIAMockingbird, where Scout diffuses a lynch mob. She sees their anger, fears for the lone man her father --
them, and gets between them. She
innocently reminds one of them, Mr.
Cunningham, that her father is in the
process of trying to help him, too.That Mr. Cunningham's son goes to her school, that they play and fight at recess, but that when the little boy was
unintentional shaming he endured because he was too poor to bring lunch to school.
The Cunninghams have little in the way of material things, but
At the moment the older Cunningham is letting his fears and prejudices get the best of him, a little girl reminds him that he is a
human being, a person of great honor, if not great coin. She
Just folks...scared, hurting folks, but folks. She acknowledges their humanity before she acknowledges their anger. I would love to be that good of a soul. It keeps leading to
my own quandary.
I see white nationalism, well any kind of bigotry,
un-human. At the same moment I am sick to my stomach that someone can think so little of someone else because of their
differences that they just want them gone, I am thinking the same thing about the bigots and the haters of the world.
How can things get better if they stay in our lives? What good can come from having them here? I can't even see their faces when they
at the reactive anger of the symbols they carry..of what they represent. I cannot see them as real human beings, only everything loud and terrible on two legs. And the trouble is, this kind of thinking, in its own
way, makes me the monster I
We spend our lives learning labels and
applying them to everything, dividing
ourselves into little cliques, always Us
Against Them. Even those with
There are reflections of light and shadow in each of us. All of us seek a place of belonging, and someone to tell us we are doing something right. All of us are trying to
To change a person's mind, you have to first see them as a person, and then be able to talk to them as a person. These labels, these symbols block that progress. You have to be
able to talk to them like they
But you have to want to get past the
symbols, the barriers between you. You have to realize that behind the anger and the repeated chants, that someone human is standing before you.
This is the hardest part of being human. Remembering that the bogeymen we
lot more like you.
This world doesn't belong to just to me. It belongs to the people that oppose everything I stand for, too. We _all_ live here.
I desperately just want to get past the drama, the labels, the suspicion,
But that's the crux of the whole thing, I guess. I really do want to understand why the people who are so angry and so afraid think that's what
But first I have to look in the mirror, and face down the monster staring back.
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