In reality, they just have to get physically close to one, and Nature will take its course.
(Look at how easily humans fall for coworkers.)
The search scope is wider. The women wait longer. The men take longer.
Everybody waits, in perpetual Limbo, thinking they’re worthy of so much more than they actually are.
This frenetic frenzy of sex and distance.
It’s all out of place.
Modernity makes slaves out of men and women alike.