It feels like you are doing everything but you look like you are doing nothing (you know the monkey dey work Baboon dey chop kind of situation)
You see, the major problem is with my focal point. Let me explain. Imagine you walked into a room with red tinted glasses 🕶.
So, HEY! The swiftest person does not always win the race, nor the strongest man the battle (Ecclesiastes 9:11 TLB).
Be genuinely happy and celebrate with others when they get ahead. However, it is not okay to use their successes or even failures to rate yourself.
So, if you are unsure of the next steps in your life or generally scared about what the future has for you, I have shared a few things that helped me below.
Without a quarter-life crisis, social media can increase your anxiety. The pressure to “do your own” and “show the world” can be very subtle and deep. Without knowing, it can grow and eat you up from within.
For me, journaling is a big deal. It helps me see myself in retrospect.
Write about your frustrations or record a voice note (if you don’t like to write). It can help you pick out underlying worry, emotions, and motives.
Prayer ( 😁 I have come again). In my case, I just go to a special place I have chosen to have conversations with God.
Sometimes, it feels like He is saying nothing at the moment.
Finally, be patient with yourself.
Let me tell you a story. When I was younger, I planted my first beans seed. The next day and every day after, I went to check if it had sprouted.
The fact that I could not see my bean plant did not mean that it was not growing.
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