I think it may go something like this:-
Dress however you want - it is fine for girls to wear trousers & flat shoes, boys can wear skirts if they like
The length of your hair has nothing to do with whether you are male or female
Women & girls can be strong strong & assertive, men & boys can be nurturing & sensitive (ideally everybody should be a all of these)
Everyone deserves to be treated with respect listened to.
Respect your lover's boundaries
Only have sex that both of you are happy with.