Thread by @MrOdanz

Some of Nigerian men need to understand that some things we see as normal put women in a mental distress and make them feel unsafe everyday.

All these stalking a lady to her house,following them about on the street to woo them are behaviors that needs to be unlearned. Seriously

A guy shared a story, in retrospect, of how he chased a lady who's on a bike with his car just to collect her number.

The lady refused, and the bike man had to drop her so she is stranded and at the mercy of the guy.

And a lot of people find it funny, find it very normal

We need to unlearn some of these behaviors. It is no longer 1914 abeg.

For most of us, it is just normal "shooting your shot", as a sharp, brave guy.

But for these women, it puts them in distress, makes them uncomfortable, disrupts their plans for the day.

I've read worst stories of the length some men go just to woo a random Lady just walking along minding her business.

Some of these ladies, if they show a lack of interest, get physically assaulted or even raped.

If you don't know how uncomfortable it makes women, ask questions

The fact that our fathers did certain things and that almost everyone still does it doesn't mean it is okay.

Stalking women, following them about to woo them is psychopathic. Unlearn that shit mehn

It is a modern world. Learn how to fit in your sexual urges in it. Fix up