Procrustes was the villainous son of Poseidon, the lord of the sea-ocean and patron god of old Atlantis.
The best of men inflict on themselves the same villainy as Procrustes did on his unsuspecting victims.
Every night Procrustes lay his guests to sleep in an iron bed.
If his guests proved too tall, Procrustes cut them in to size with his scythe and sickle.
Every time you try to fit you Character to someone else's pattern, you make your own bed of Procrustes.
As an adult, you have to be the author of your own action, regardless of circumstances. You act to create.
Nowadays, the male archetype isn’t Zeus or Hades – it’s Jim from ‘The Office’, a spineless degenerate who wastes his days in senseless pranks.
They can become the mindless jims of the world or fall victim to fitting themselves in the bed of Procrustes.
The men who fit perfectly in any of the archetypes are the men who never transcended – and never grew up.
Years pass and they realize that the archetypal straightjacket won't hold them.
They can’t fit the button-down world or the shrinking button-down world rejects them. They end up day-drinking and lying to their ex-wives.
The world ejects them from their loathsome jobs because they were too busy fitting in to shape it.
They gave up their masculine agency to be another brick in the corporate wall.
Without agency, you become a future victim.
Get triggered and defensive or get triggered and empowered.
Here’s the deal.
He despised himself when he was the well-dressed professional.
Because he knew it was a fragile façade, and he was a scared child behind it.
What are you by nature?
It doesn’t matter.
As an adult, you have to cut out your own suit and carve out your own niche.
Maturation isn’t like filling out a colouring book.
Caricatures aren’t adult individuals.
Self-authorship is the essence of adulthood. You must craft your own image and a world unto it.
Create yourself, and you will shape the world.