She told him she would no longer have sex with him
The thought of it made her cringe
He had broken her trust
He had disappointed her gravely
As far as she was concerned the physical intimacy aspect of the marriage was dead!
He didn't quite get it...
He tried to reason with her
What did I do?
What was my offence?
She said "I saw you with a lady in my dreams. She was tall and fair, both of you were married and taking wedding pictures!
Wow!
She was punishing him for something she saw in her dream!
He reminded her that he was a pastor, a believer and a man of good reputation! He had never cheated on her and he had no plan of cheating on her!
She was adamant!
She said her dreams always come true!
Was he supposed to undo the dream she had?
She was supposed to be spirit led
But the dream had taken a strong hold of her reality
The dream had become a stumbling block to their marriage
He reached out to the Brother in Jeans and T-shirt!
What are you doing? He asked her
She said she was waiting for another dream
She wanted God to show her her husband had either divorced the person spiritually or give her another dream in which they were both happy together again
What she saw was a revelation that he had a spirit wife or will soon be messing around
Either way, she would be foolish to sleep with him unless she got a special spiritual clearance or go ahead from the Holy Spirit!
There was no scriptural backing for her extreme position! It made no sense! It was like punishing somebody for a crime committed in the dream or for a crime that is yet to be committed!
"You are pushing your husband out of this marriage" He told her
"What do you mean I am pushing him out of the marriage?
Is he not a pastor?
God will punish him if he left the marriage because of sex?
Nobody can blackmail me to sleep with him
We are married!
We signed a for better, for worse pact
And it has no expiry date!"
You think being a pastor makes me your lackey, right?
You think our marriage defines my standing with God and therefore you can do and undo, right?"
Hmmm...
Her husband went to work one day and didn't return home
She called his phone but all his phone numbers had been switched off
Church members didn't see
Him too
She drove to his office after three days
He told the security guards to lead her off the premises!"
He had bought a house on the mainland and remodelled it to taste
He had moved into the house with a tall and fair lady
Her dream had finally come to pass!
She ran to the Brother in Jeans and T-shirt
"Sir, my dream has come to pass!Didn't I tell you so?"
Talking was pointless!
She cried!
"God showed me this day will come, my dreams do not fail to come to pass! Why did God take my husband away from me and our child?" She lamented
Then she started cursing her husband...
She didn't sign it
She travelled to America with her son to clear her head!
Her husband got the divorce and remarried
He walked away from the denomination he was with and joined another church as a member
This happened in 2015, June!
She said she had another dream that she was married to her husband again and they had another child in 2019
The husband and his new wife had two children already
2019 is almost over
Her husband is still married to the new wife
She is growing desperate by the day!