Thread by @LaraAdamsMille1

Graphic bio of a fetishist who’s decided he’s a lesbian:

“I am a lesbian with some sexual attraction to male parts... I feel like a lesbian with a kink for men. Is it possible I have a... desire to be female that I am repressing?”

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“It's funny that a few times in my life I have said I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans body but dismissed it as a random momentary thought (maybe I was watching lesbian porn). The years pass and it turns out this is potentially life altering.”

I swear I didn’t write this.

This was posted on one of the many sites that cater to both crossdressers and transgender/nonbinary-identifying men. The men describing their fetishized fantasies here often also identify as women.

“It seems to be taking more and more to make me feel feminine enough. I'm not sure where it ends.”

This is someone with an addictive compulsion escalating his dose to get a satisfying fix. This is what leads AGPs to transition. It’s also why it happens later in life for them.

“The female self getting more demanding...exactly. I have ordered a couple of dresses, a wig...looking at some shiny PVC boots as we speak. Also ordered some clip-on hoop earrings and a little school girl uniform.”

This is what he imagines being a woman to be.

“It may be because I have a completely awesome heterosexual outlet with my girlfriend that is amazing but I need to have sex as a woman and ache (and I mean ache) because of it.

I've got counselling booked for the 26th...”

Going to see a gender therapist.

Read his graphic original post, then read this later comment by him:

“At this point I'd be happy to sit down and play cards socially all dressed up. Anything to feel right.”

This is a sexual compulsion that often consists of fantasies that don’t seem apparently sexual.

Everyone who thinks it’s no big deal to affirm these men the way they desire, everyone who thinks lesbians who dislike this are “gatekeeping” or “hateful” —

Would you invite this man to your regular card game with your wife and friends?

Lesbians are PROPS to autogynephiles. We’re as human to them as their garter belts & heels, set pieces meant to serve their publicly-enacted fantasy. They talk about being hurt because we don’t want to be involved. I don’t care. Their sexual desires are their concern, not mine.

And if you’re thinking - “That’s unfair. All mtfs aren’t like that.”

The ones who aggressively demand access to lesbian spaces ARE like this, to one degree or another.

We aren’t their community - we’re their set extras and harem.

Lesbianism is, first & foremost, a sexual orientation, & lesbian spaces are places where we can be women who are attracted to & attract women. They’re places we don’t exist as the sexual targets of men. This is what mtfs steal from us. They reintroduce male objectification of us.

Notice throughout how he villifies his ex-wife and idolizes his current girlfriend, particularly how she pleases him sexually. I see this in the case of nearly all men who are powerfully drawn to crossdressing, esp if they’re not self-aware of the motivations behind their habit.

What the extreme gender lobby has pushed for helps enable AGPs to practice their fetish more openly:

“I want to tell her much sooner than later. She's a... nurse. Part of me thinks an actual diagnosis validating my gender dysphoria may be the ticket to the conversation I need.”

The pity-inducing propaganda put out by gender extremists influences the population (esp progressives) in a way that makes it harder for AGP’s wives & girlfriends to draw self-respecting boundaries, or to get outside support when they do.

Gender wokeness isolates these women.

“I'm good at being a man but if I could flip a switch and be a trans woman right now I'd have already done it. I feel okay as a man less and less of the time... Faking it in the bedroom is a piece of cake. I'm my girlfriend's trans girlfriend and she doesn't even realize it.”

“As far as I can tell there are two sides to this for me. One where I would vastly prefer to live as a regular woman the other is hypersexualized and I'd like to get used by men and women alike.”

So, which “side” wants to come swim with naked lesbians, do you think?

He tells a familiar story- a masturbatory fetish discovered in childhood, escalates over time, w a more emotional & less sexualized motivation growing gradually alongside the sexual component. AGPs tell two stories- one emotional & one sexual. At its core, though, it’s a sex act.