“Is it about penis? You’re allowed a genital preference.”
Fuck you! “No” is a complete sentence!
Straight women are expected to validate these men with a few words. Lesbians are expected to validate these men with the most personal and important aspects of our lives.
Straight women may rarely encounter an AGP. Not so for lesbians.
What’s new, what’s absolutely shameful, is our supposed allies are ordering us to open our doors, be nice, & welcome our enemies in.
They’re our enemy because they won’t accept that we’ll never be sexually available to men.
We’ll NEVER be sexually available to men.
Lesbians are a population of women who are a living “NO” to the sexual needs of men.
Aren’t we allowed to do that?
Goddamn right we are.
But I don’t see people putting that kind of effort into understanding the experiences of lesbians.
Well, we lesbians have just a few little patches of the world where WE can live as ourselves, with dignity. And we’re being ordered to surrender them.
Most of the rest, all those friends I made after I fled my fundamentalist hometown - most of them either see me as a bigot or have no idea of my views on homosexuality being, you know, REAL.
Guys, I really wish I were exaggerating when I said that I stay home because I can’t bite my tongue well enough to know my family will stay safe.
Then, in 2016, he murdered two Michfest lesbians & their son.
Don’t buy their claims to being champions of diversity. They don’t help poc, they use them.