The similarities between Libra and Capricorn...
Libra and Capricorn both have a need to be in control of their relationships. Let’s start there lol.
Libra and Capricorn both know HOW they want their relationships to go, HOW they want others to perceive them and HOW the mu expect others to act. They reason it in two different ways.
Libra is a perfectionist. Libra wants everything to “look” good. They don’t want their relationships to “look” bad to others. They don’t want you to have them out here looking stupid. That’s why they over control the relationship and micromanage.
Capricorn is kinda of the opposite. To sum it up, they don’t want to feel like a failure. Lmao whew.
Capricorn is so intensely hard on themselves so it’s like... if the relationship fails, if you’re not who they believed you could be and if you fail them, they’ve failed and their life is meaningless until they recover. Capricorn’s are very afraid of failing. So they micromanage
Libra and Capricorn’s control issues has an effect... it causes them to OVER work in the relationship. This causes them to emotional isolate themselves and it ultimately leads to a burn out. They feel like they’re doing it all on their own because they are.
They won’t LET their partner in enough for them to receive support until they’re having a breakdown and are in the verge of breaking up (Libra) or “giving up” (Capricorn)
Both signs get frustrated with their partners when things start failing because they feel like things WOULDNT fail if their partner would just match their effort. The issue is that you can’t win a game if the whole team doesn’t know the game plan.
In this case the game plan is emotional understanding which can only come from openess and sharing control in the relationship.
Libra and Capricorn both need to learn how to be open to their partners perspectives and open to not having to do “everything” to make the relationship work. They can do so much that the partner doesn’t have room to even put initiative in.
Both of these signs can be great partners because they ARE so invested in making something work but they have to realize it’s not something they can do on their own from the BEGINNING of the relationship. There’s no leader needed.
