What Cancer Moon needs to be emotionally fulfilled:
Cancer Moon grew up with a mom who had a lot of emotional highs and lows. Their mother could have had a level of emotional volatility and a lot threshold for stress and aggravation. Cancer Moon has a mother who could have anger issues.
Cancer Moon experienced a mom who had a lot of stressors and has gone through a lot of pain. This causes little Cancer Moon to feel like they shouldn’t cause any more pain in their mothers life.
Because of the emotional highs and lows Cancer Moon’s mother went through, Cancer Moon learned that they have to suffer in silence, which creates a lot of internal turbulence. Cancer Moon ends up resenting their mom subconsciously because she was an emotionally selfish mother.
When Cancer Moon grows up, they feel obligated to be loyal to their mother and love them unconditionally, even though their mother is still wrapped up in her own problems 24/7. The resentment grows and Cancer Moon becomes more angry with less patience & less room to let people in
Cancer Moon starts to isolate themselves emotionally and assume that people won’t “get them” or won’t care to. This is a projection onto the world because of their unaddressed feelings towards their mother.
Cancer Moon is essentially emotionally starved and bulldozed by their moms excessive self-centered feelings. Cancer Moon has to acknowledge that their mother has done things that piss them off. They have to understand that their anger is valid, and so is their love for their mom
Cancer Moon needs to learn to acknowledge their anger without feeling guilty about it. They have to learn to sit with their feelings and not lash out onto others which only make them feel even more guilty.
Cancer Moon has to learn to learn that feeling emotional does not mean that they’re going to become like their mom. It also doesn’t mean that they’re going to become emotionally volatile or unstable, like their mother.
Cancer Moon needs an environment that is stable, comforting and relaxing. Cancer Moons can grow up around emotional turbulence and anger which causes them to feel unsafe and closed off.
