MEN-tal ABUSE
They're so many men out there everyday dealing with women that are mentally abusive, but nobody wants to talk about it. Why? Because it opposes the narrative that women are angels & men are demons⬇️⬇️⬇️
They're so many men out there everyday dealing with women that are mentally abusive, but nobody wants to talk about it. Why? Because it opposes the narrative that women are angels & men are demons⬇️⬇️⬇️
The majority of suicides are by men & the most disturbing part is it's mainly married men or those in serious relationships. When it comes to love,men have been programmed to rationalize a woman's insults, put downs & her bad attitude. Apparently it's "normal"⬇️⬇️⬇️
Rationalization: a cope mechanism which controversial behaviors or feelings are justified and explained in a seemingly rational or logical manner to avoid the true explanation, and are made consciously tolerable—or even admirable and superior—by plausible means⬇️⬇️⬇️
You always hear this, if your woman isn't nagging, difficult, arguing with you, she doesn't really love you. That's how women are. This is bullshit. You should never tolerate such behavior, you're actually being abused. Abuse isn't physically only, it can also be mental abuse⬇️⬇️
Mental/emotional abuse is so subtle, you won't even know you're being abused. And it becomes dangerous if you consider it, the norm. A lot of men are in pins & needles relationships. What are pins & needles???⬇️⬇️⬇️
A pins & needles relationship is where you are constantly on alert, being conscious of what you do & say so that you don't upset her, even if she's in the wrong. A lot of men would rather avoid getting their woman upset than confronting her with the truth⬇️⬇️⬇️
This is because she has consistently gotten angry or punished him in some form (denies him sex) because he spoke out against her behavior, questioned her, or simply stood up for himself. So now this man is walking around simply trying to get by & not anger her⬇️⬇️⬇️
She has psychologically weakened him by constant arguing, temper tantrums & isolation techniques. Bro, this is not healthy. I get keeping the peace, but not at the expense of your mental health. "Happy wife, happy life" that's bullshit. You too should be happy⬇️⬇️⬇️
If you can't have health conversations or disagreements without your woman flipping out & penalizing you, you're in an abusive relationship. End it right now because that woman will be the d3ath of you. Mental abuse will result in depression & that in turn leads to suicide⬇️⬇️⬇️
Kings, any relationship where you can't be yourself & keep it 100 is not a good one to stay in. Stop enabling these women's bad behavior😴😴😴
