My mom serves on the Brighton Girls' Camp Committee. She serves with 1/
Near the end of the 9-week camp season, D told her friends on the committee, Mom included, that her lawyer husband announced that they're getting a divorce.
D was dumbfounded. No prior talk of trouble or concern 3/
As time wears on, 4/
He served her papers 2 days after their youngest moved out.
D's husband used his phone account access to track her locations, texts, calls, and more.
When D acquired a burner phone, husband 5/
During the time that D was served papers until she was committed, she was unable to perform some of the normal functions or her calling at Brighton. Using this 6/
He initiated personal contact after cutting her off from her support 7/
My Mom and S are understandably very upset. S lives out of town, but Mom was able to speak to the Presidency.
The Brighton President says, "No, she just 8/
Mom replied, "I don't care that you talked to the Bishop. Its all an Old Boy's Club! D's Husband isn't honest 9/
President replies, "The Bishop has been friends with them for years and she's has problems for 12 years with mental illness /10
President: "Well she got a little flaky on a few assignments the last week of camp. And we haven't even spent that much time with her! I'm 11/
Mom replies, "That's the problem. I'm very worried about how emotional abuse has affected her. I spent a good amount of time with her, including counseling her on divorce until he cut us off. She doesn't act ill, 12/
President: "We don't know better than her Bishop, they've been friends for years & he agrees with D's husband, she 13/
This. This is how the church protects the WRONG people and refused to listen to women.
This is how abuse happens. When we shrug and say 'Their 14/
Socially, culturally, and institutionally - the Mormon church is 15/
We play a game of best intent and what-aboutism for men in charge and in power and refuse to confront the real signs of abuse right under our noses.
We can't confront them because we refuse to even talk about it. 16/
I wonder if we are trying so hard to police silly things because we're afraid of confronting how far we've fallen from defending and protecting women left vulnerable - the widowed, the fatherless. Christ 17/
Being polite and thinking everyone means well is not Christlike. Christ was a radical man that made many in the church uncomfortable by who he 18/
How have you radically loved someone that no one else saw was being manipulated and harmed?
Have you ever challenged your bishop? Any other authority figure? Have you stuck your neck out or have you been a Pharisee?
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