Thread by @PaulMDomenick

Here’s a Guide on how to become the guy in the phrase “Who is that guy!?”

The guy everyone stares at, wondering with curiosity, as he strolls through the room looking like a god

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Ever wonder what it would be like to be “that guy”?

The guy everyone stops to look at as he passes you by on the street...

Or the guy that commands a room...

Yeah, it’s not as hard as you think, it’s just going to require some work on your end..

Let’s jump into it 👇🏼

1-Get your mind right

Fact: if you don’t believe you’re a man that is capable of achieving greatness, no one else will believe it either

You have to be fully convinced you’re the man

You can do this by starting to do things the ‘Man’ you envision does

Reverse engineer the process

What does the man do?

-Build good habits
-Hangout where success hangs
-Walk confidently
-Talk confident
-Develop a hard work ethic
-Helps others

Overtime, you’ll slowly remove your bad habits and replace them with good ones

Getting your mind right also includes being in control of your emotions

You can’t go around reacting to everything, because many times, things are going to happen that you don’t like

Tough sh*t, learn how to remain calm

How?

By remembering what’s in your control

You have control over:
-Your energy
-Your thoughts
-Your actions
-Your intentions

That’s about it..

Everything else is outside of your control, so stop complaining

Control over your emotional state is a sign of strength

Because if you can control your emotions, you can control how you feel, and if you can control how you feel, you can control what actions you take

Your actions govern what changes you’ll make in your life

Actio is what counts

2-Get your body language right

Look at you, moving around like the hunchback sounding like a mouse

Want people to take you seriously??

-Stand up straight
-Shoulders back;Chest out
-Chin up
-Hands at side
-Look people in their eyes

Hurts right?

Because you have bad posture

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So start walking around like you mean it, with the steps described above

You’ll notice that you’ll begin to feel more confident the more you walk with good posture

3-Get your body right

Now that you have your mind sharp like a razor, you need to make your body strong like a machine

Get that a*s in the gym and start lifting heavy weights

At least 3-4x a week

Hit the streets or hop on the tread mill and begin cardio training

Reasons to workout:

-You’ll feel more confident
-Your health depends on it
-You’ll look better naked

Add in a healthy diet and you’re on your way to becoming a god

4-Get your knowledge right

It’s time to become well read

Expand your horizons a little bit

Start reading books and begin furthering your education in an area of your choosing

Preferably in the area that is one of your already established a skills

But mix it up sometimes..

For me, I enjoy reading on Human psychology, evolutionary biology and Human behavior in Social settings

I want to know as much as possible about the subject

Plus, people will:

1-See you as an authority on the subject
2-Look to learn from you
3-See you as an interesting person

5-Get your life right

What are your plans?

Are you in school?

What do you want to do?

Whatever you’re choosing to do, aim to be the best

Engineering? Aim to be the best engineer that ever lived

Copywriting? Aim to be the best copywriter that ever walked this planet

Doctor? Aim to be the best doctor to ever grace the grounds of any hospital

See what I’m getting at?

It’s about not settling and aiming to be the best at what you do

This will separate you from the pack and make you stand out as the top dog

People will notice

6-Get your Social skills right

Can you approach a stranger?

What type of questions do you ask?

Can you approach her?

Running out of things to say?

Social skills are the key to this whole process

Why? Because we interact with humans everyday and we always will

What should you learn?

-How to start a conversation
-How to never run out of things to say
-How to ask the right questions
-How to network
-How to remain calm in arguments
-How to lift others spirits

Etc

Social skills will always be important

Learn them now

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Tl;dr

1-Get your mind right
2-Get your Body language right
3-Get your Body right
4-Get your knowledge right
5-Get your life right
6-Get your Social skills right

Hope you enjoyed this thread

Any questions, hit my dm

Talk soon,
Paul