a good father if you have children
a supportive partner, a loyal friend
a responsible man who makes amends when he hurts people and who doesn't run away from burdens
being a silent, stoic provider who finds it easier to access anger than softness - is this traditional masculinity? KEEP IT
NOT romantic heroes. solid dudes who exemplify this
SHERLOCK HOLMES
DARCY
ROCHESTER
JAMES FUCKING BOND
absolutely not!!!!
John Watson
Laurie from Little Women
Peeta from Hunger Games
Dickens' David Copperfield
Gil Blythe
Rat and Mole from the Wind in the Willows (don't @ me)
that's a rare literary twist