It’s merely the place of not being seen, known, considered.
Or, if we are, it’s as model of ministry to us rather than ministry with or ministry by us.
Having to go around back to find a ramp doesn’t feel like I’m welcome, especially when the doors often bear a sign asking for people to enter at the front because a service is in session even when it isn’t.
This tells me where I fall in your estimation of importance, not only less than human but also less than stones.
You are missing out on God’s design for community when you restrict yours to abled people (or abled people with some disabled kids permitted).
ACKNOWLEDGE IT.
Name the inaccessibility. Confess to God the sins inherent in constructing a worship space that reinforces ability privilege. Lament.
And? Maybe choose not to use pulpits that aren’t accessible.