Jews built an entire parallel government, on their own, under the British Mandate. All without international aid or Western consultants or hundreds of NGOs. They built industries, created tens of thousands of jobs, and didn't whine that it was too hard.
This is hardly a controversial position.
Their real strategy is not the creation of a strong, independent state, but the destruction of one.
Arafat's phased plan of 1974 is still the unspoken but clear goal.
This is why they didn't accept any peace plan that would end the conflict.
This is why they keep the refugee issue alive.
This is why they insist on Jerusalem when it was a slim under Muslim rule.
This is why there are "refugee camps" under PA and Hamas rule.
This is the truth that everyone is too frightened to say out loud because no one wants to piss them off.
But the only way to move forward is with the truth.
Because that is exactly how the world relates to Palestinians today.
When they are expected to act like adults, then maybe things can change. Coddling them and turning a blind eye to their behavior is the worst thing to do.