Thread by @ArmaniTalks

'Can I be ugly & confident?'

Ya, you can.

Confidence isn't about your physical attributes.

It's all about your attitude.

Clean yourself up, get some basic style & carry yourself like a CEO of a planet.

You probably know a lot of ugly confident people.

Heck, you also probably know a lot of losers who are overly confident.

Ever wondered why?

'Hmmm....I have.'

Well let me give you a mindset lesson 👇

☆Handsome = Physical Attributes

☆Attractive = Behavioral Attributes.

You can't always control your physical attributes.

But you can always control your behavioral attributes.

Physical Attributes Examples:

▪︎Tall
▪︎Symmetrical face
▪︎Blue eyes
etc.

Behavioral Attributes Examples:

▪︎Funny
▪︎Stylish
▪︎Confident
etc.

Your limiting belief is that physical attributes matter more than behavioral attributes.

But reality check...

It's the exact opposite.

You'll meet many handsome people who lack self confidence.

You'll meet many ugly mothefuckers who have a boat load of confidence.

'Why?'

It's because of the self image.

This is exactly why that loser you know is so damn confident.

You know....

That one guy who gets fucked up every night, talks a big game, borderline cocky.

That individual has a VERY strong self image.

'How do I develop a strong self image?'

I'm not going to give you a bunch of gimmicks.

You really need to things.

1. Appreciation for where you are.
2. A vision.

Gratitude will help with 1.

The right brain will help with 2.

1. Appreciation for where you are.

Every human has something they can be appreciative for.

Confident people count every win.

'Even the small ones?'

Especially the small ones.

Count your small wins first.

Keep conditioning that thinking pattern onto your brain.

EVERYDAY.

When you count the small wins first, counting the big wins will be a byproduct.

☆When you only count the big wins, you will always feel unfulfilled.

No lie.

2. A Vision

True success is about making consistent progress towards a grander vision.

This is your north star.

When you don't assign your brain a north star, your mind goes into chaos.

Anxiety, low self worth & sadness will follow.

When you do assign your mind a north star, you tame the chaos.

Direction, fulfillment & self assuredness will follow.

Your behavior WILL change.

I can tell from a mile away who has a vision & who is just winging it.

When you combine an appreciate for where you are & have an idea of where you are going, a self image will develop.

You will start viewing yourself as a winner.

When you view yourself as a winner, others will have no choice but to do the same.

It doesn't matter if your ugly.

Why?

Because your behavior is attractive.

You are a human with INTENT.

And a human with intent oozes confidence in their moves.

Take it a level further & clean yourself up.

Look like a winner.

My tip is to buy clothes that you can see yourself wearing 40 years from now.

That's evergreen material.

Don't you see?

We are multiple planets living on one planet.

'Huh?'

We are all the main character of our planet.

We just so happen to live on earth.

You were the CEO of your planet all along champ.

The main character to your movie.

Quit telling yourself otherwise.

Design your dream self image.

And execute it until you become it.

Confidence awaits...

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