Thread by @ArmaniTalks

When a loser sees a successful person, the first thing they do is look for loopholes.

They wonder if the person was given a big sum of money by their parents.

Winners don't think like that.

Rather, they analyze the successful persons present day habits & business model

The difference in perspective comes down to a matter of perspective.

May sound like wordplay, but it isn't.

It all begins with....

Looking from the outside.

Have you ever had that moment where you saw someone winning & was like:

'That's so easy. I can do that too!'

I'm sure you did.

So you decided to begin on this 'easy' venture.

To only learn there was nothing easy about it.

It was tough & required a lot of grit.

At that point, you got a newfound respect for the person who you derided earlier.

Your lesson was learned.

The lesson was: 'it's rarely as easy as it looks.'

If it was so easy, then everyone would be driving a lambo

But the loser never learns this lesson.

Why?

Because they never bothered beginning the venture.

They waved the act off as easy & went about their day.

So they have limiting beliefs about success.

0 skin in the game.

When you have 0 skin in the game, you begin assuming.

'What a crook!' they say about the rich.

And then they vilify money & success.

They think you lack humility when you think about it.

That's why they always whine about 'privilege.'

They feel like someone else's privilege has robbed them of their own potential.

But in reality...

It's just an excuse to mask their awful work ethic & lack of guts.

'Don't privilege people bother winners tho?'

Not really.

A winner cares about the now.

They want to know about the habits of this rich person so they can implement some new moves.

They want to know the business model so they can get ideas for their own business.

That's how their brain works.

When you look for negativity, you will leave drained.

When you look for positivity, you will leave empowered.

And a winner knows this.

While the loser has no clue.

Replace pessimism with genuine curiosity.

Trust me, it will pay more dividends.

Pessimism is when you are assuming the negative.

Genuine curiosity is when you want to find the keys.

Quit being a victim.

In the age of opportunities, no one feels sorry for ya.

Well scratch that....

Other victims feel sorry for ya.

Now y'all can get buddy buddy & talk about how the world is out to get you.

That's easy though.

The victors will take the path less taken.

They will put skin in the game & quit acting helpless.

That's what separates people with growth mode vs. those with fixed minds.

Pick your path homie.

Either way, time will catch up.

The choice you make will you either have you feeling shame or pride.

Choose wisely.

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