Thread by @DrOlusesan

WOMEN - WHERE WISE MEN BANK
There are things u heard as a child that wasn't meant for your childhood, which were the reasons u didnt understand, when u were told as a child. My father use to say, "if you do well in life, you do for yourself." He died before I started doing well.

Guys, don't be deceived, there are possibilities the woman you'll end up with will be more clever, more intuitive and street wise. It doesn't make you less a man, if you succeed through a woman. Unlike women, men hardly express their prejudices about women, on social media.

Women arent always right, but try listening to them. A fellow did a deal his wife warned him against and his entire savings got trapped. He was using police for months, to get the money, without luck. He got part of the money the only day his woman went to display for the debtor.

One of my lecturers, back then, married to a woman that's richer has plans to buy a Mercedes Benz, but pretended he wants to buy a Kia. Although, his wife equally likes Mercedes more than any other car, but he's sure if he should ask her to add money for a Benz, she'll refuse.

He went in advance to ask the car dealer to place the Mercedes he wants beside the Kia he eventually took his wife to see. As he frantically inspects the Kia, showing her the Kia features, the woman continued to shift her gaze from the Kia, looking more at the Mercedes Benz. 😀

When they were done inspecting the Kia, the only question the woman asked was, "how much is the Mercedes Benz," and the man protested that he only has money for Kia, that the Benz is N3Million more. Finally, the woman begged him to buy the Benz, that she will add the N3Million.

Unlike the past when women are raised to be docile, many today are deft and are well adapted to succeed twice as much as men, especially when challenged to compete. You can't be broke and harbour a wrong attitude. A woman can have what it takes to bail you out. Use this strength!

Here's my message. We are at a dispensation of grey areas, but to be conservative, it is safe to be over ambitious as a man, for the good of yourself and the society. It's pays to posture as the one that pays the entire bill, even if your wife, or girlfriend has her own money.

If u arent dating an exploitative woman, begin to coach your mind as a provider by helping her meet her needs. The training u would have acquired will still be useful, even if you dont marry the woman u spent for. You would have broadened your shoulders to carry responsibilities.

If you lose your job and your woman begins to provide food, pay school fees and rent, will you still ask her to buy you clothes? Fam, a nigga did. The woman is doing all he's supposed to do from a salary of N85,000. Yet, he wants clothes from this amount. Whatchu smoking guys? 🤣

Kings, u cant seek for the equivalence of what u do for a woman, when women hold the means, without looking stupid. The society is comfortable with women sharing men's glamour as 1st lady. If your wife is a Minister and u go there to do gragra, people will say u have no shame. 🤣

I was with a mentor when he asked a friend for a million. Right in my presence, he distributed all the money to relatives who are marrying, in-laws who want school fees, those who just gave birth. He isnt living for himself & family alone. This is the capacity you should pursue!

You cant attain that capacity by fighting your woman over who should pay for kerosene. There's nothing wrong, if u dont have when she has, but be triggered! When you eat a meal a woman pays for, eat it for strength to go & carry cement, to bring home money. Dont sit like this 👇