A. (Never saw combat) They look down, get a little flustered and say they were in logistics or never left San Diego or whatever. Then..
B) (saw real combat) These vets look you in the eye, give you a real firm handshake and say that my thanks means a lot to them. Then with soulful eyes..
She could turn this all into a positive with one simple...
Get in front of a camera and tell us exactly where and how you served.
Then tell us you were lucky never to be in real danger.
Then tell us your medical role gave you the privilege of helping wounded soldiers and showing you the horrors of politicians throwing...
People on both sides of the aisle would embrace and applaud her for that.
Until she does this we'll keep feeling uneasy about her and think her enlistment was just for resume enhancement.
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