part of what's happening here is our inability to separate "said something sexist" from "is a sexist monster"
our movement desperately needs a little more humanity & some education on restorative justice
every white person i have ever organized with for any significant period of time (including myself) has said or done something informed by racism
we are all affected by them.
that doesn't make us horrible people to be thrown in the trash.
accepting that is a huge step toward approaching people and organizing in a healthier way.
everyone pretending they're perfect when everyone knows they're not gets nowhere