Many autistic people I know are in fact experts in NVC, because they've studied it in great depth.
Does double empathy apply here too?
They get some new labels: Challenging; Aggressive; Violent; Controlling being just a few examples.
Learn to understand the NVC telling you #autistic people are under stress.
If you have an autistic person in your care or company then it is YOUR responsibility to try to bridge that gap as much as possible.
Both you and the #autistic person will have an easier time as a result.
Worth a try?
Oh for a Twitter edit button 🙄