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The truth that the world is a mirror especially applies in a relationship. They will mirror your deepest insecurities and problems
Emotional dependencies will always cause increasingly more problems if you don't deal with them.
Emotional dependencies cause you to take the other person for granted bc you are using them to fill a void you should be filling yourself
When arguing with them, if it becomes emotional, there are now two arguments:one emotional and one about the content
At this point, no matter what you say, if you do not address the emotional component, there will still be problems/conflict
The relationships that work are the ones in which people are growing because this means they are confronting any emotional dependencies
The relationships that don't work are the ones in which people cannot confront themselves. Instead, they project themselves onto the other
Your relationship with this person mirrors your relationship with yourself. It is a great opportunity to grow and work on your own self-love
If you have communication problems with your significant other, you also have communication problems with at least one part of yourself
If you have anger problems with your significant other, you also have anger problems with at least one part of yourself
If you have intimacy problems with your significant other, you also have intimacy problems with at least one part of yourself
If you have control issues with your significant other, you also have control issues with at least one part of yourself
If your history of significant others are some kind of "type", it is likely you like the idea of them more than you like them for them
You CANNOT expect your significant other to treat you better than you treat yourself. This is caused by emotional dependencies
A healthy relationship should help you love yourself more by practicing on someone else.
Stop looking for relationships to fill your voids and trust that you will attract the right man/woman when you grow into the right man/woman
