Let's dig into that, shall we? There are a variety of reasons.
1. Uncertainty
2. Fear
3. Shame
4. Embarrassment
I was in shock when I was raped. I didn't fight because it happened so quickly.
He clamped his mouth over mine so I couldn't speak, and held me down with his body.
2. Or do I speak up, and watch them ruin my life?
Do not misunderstand me, though....
Every women (or person who is abused) has to make their own decisions.
TO THE GOOD MEN OUT THERE: PLEASE SPEAK UP, ESPECIALLY FOR THOSE WHO CANNOT. DO NOT JUST SIT AND WATCH IT HAPPEN.
TRUST ME.
If sexual abuse is not rampant, why does it take multiple women to come forward before anyone believes?
Innocent until proven guilty, yes - but when do women get that benefit of the doubt, too?