My father was the Chief Imam of our town so I was well sought after by suitors. In fact by the time I was 17 I had more than twenty proposals from different families seeking my hand in marriage. #DivorceDiaries
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‘You are too beautiful to be seen on the streets walking to school every day’ #DivorceDiaries
The more I observed Malam when Jamila was reciting her verses, the more obvious it became that he had feelings for her. #DivorceDiaries
Jamila looked at me with desperation in her eyes. I wanted to tell him but in that moment my heart went out to her. #DivorceDiaries
‘You should be ready to receive Dr Halima in the evening; she will bring treatment for you.’ #DivorceDiaries
‘Amarya, I came to say goodbye.’
‘Goodbye kuma ya Jamila? What are you saying? Is it Alhaji? Is he dead?’ #DivorceDiaries
My stomach turned again. #DivorceDiaries
‘Amarya, do you know that Alhaji has HIV? ‘
‘What is HiV?’ #DivorceDiaries
I was confused. Alhaji go to visit prostitutes? How? #DivorceDiaries
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‘Dr Halima told me.’ #DivorceDiaries
My stomach turned again. So it had to be true! She was his doctor after all. While in the toilet it occurred to me that at school there had been a lecture about HIV/AIDS. It all came flooding back. #DivorceDiaries
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I did not know what to say so I looked away from him. I was not sure how to engage in conversation with him. I felt sorry for him to say the least. I wondered why he summoned me. #DivorceDiaries
My stomach turned again. I knew he could not whip me but I feared he would ask Dauda to do it.
An eternity of silence seemed to pass then he said to me:
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‘Alhaji I do not understand’
‘Dauda will take you home and explain things to your father.’ #DivorceDiaries
It took a while for my father to admit he made a mistake by marrying me off to someone like Alhaji without any investigation or conditions. #DivorceDiaries
I have been on Anti Retroviral drugs. #DivorceDiaries
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