Thread by @munahmoons

BLOWJOB TIPS

First things first, if you think blowjobs are degrading, save yourself the stress and stop reading now because this is clearly not for you.

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Giving GOOD head can be very awkward, and to some people “nasty”, but if you look at the penis like a popsicle or an ice cream cone, it makes the job easier.

Start by settling in, could be by finding the right background song, one that makes you feel good and sets the mood.

Find a comfortable position so that you don't cramp your legs all in the name of pleasing someone.

Slowly ease your way down.

Nibble on his ear.

Soft bites on his neck.

Lick his nipples.

Kiss your way down to his abdomen.

Kiss his inner thighs.

Then go for it.

Guys love to be teased.

Now the valid points 👇 👇

• Pay Attention To The Tip

This is a very important step when giving him head.

The tip of a man’s dick is one of the most sensitive parts.

Start by kissing the tip, gently caressing it with your tongue and slowly putting your whole mouth on it.

Use your tongue and your warm breath; start slowly.

It needs to feel like you are French kissing the tip of the dick.

Wet and warm.

Twist your head in different ways around his dick and continue sucking on it.

While your tongue caresses the tip, move it around in a circular motion with your lips gripping tightly on his dick so that the friction is better felt.

Be Mindful Of Your Teeth.

• Use your hands

Your hand isn’t only for holding his dick for support while giving head but also a good way to tease him.

While you're on his dick, use your dominant hand to stroke up and down and the other hand to lightly squeeze and play with his balls(one at a time).

It might be hard trying to do all three at once, but if you get a hang of it, it's extremely easy.

Light strokes to the tip followed by one firm stroke down the shaft.

Rub your fingers all over. It should feel like you are giving him a dick massage.

• Don’t Forget The Balls

Most times when giving head, the balls aren't treated as part of the dick family, they're often left out and seeing that it's a very sensitive body part, it hurts.

At the point when your mouth and jaw starts to hurt from all that sucking, you can stop and use your hands to play with his balls.

That way you are still pleasing him but also taking a break.

If you are very daring, you can also suck his balls(flick your tongue around it).

But if you don’t feel comfortable putting his balls in your mouth, just use your hands.

When you suck his balls, don't stop stroking his dick.

• Be Creative

Spice things up.

Try giving him head with something cold, or warm.

You can experiment with ice cubes, mint, fizzy drinks(Coke), champagne, warm tea or ice cream.

For starters, try an ice cube. Put it in your mouth and suck his dick.

This causes fireworks in his head.

• Let Your Rhythms Vary

You know how with sex, every stroke gets deeper? Well it is quite similar to head.

Start with the tip, then go a little further and further till you can’t take it anymore or you feel like you are about to gag(especially if you have a gag reflex).

Deep-throating doesn’t necessarily mean good head but it's important.

Try going down at your own pace, there is no rush.

If you aren’t comfortable taking everything, don’t let him force you.

There are so many things you can do with your mouth.

Go slow, then fast, then slow again.

DO NOT be predictable.

Versatility is key.

• Sloppy Head Is The Best

Since your mouth is your pussy’s substitute(both warm and wet), you need to add a lot of saliva to the equation; not so much, just enough to keep it well lubricated.

DON’T give head with a dry mouth.

If your mouth is dry, drink some water first to moisten it.

If you give head with a dry mouth, the friction causes pain and discomfort to both you and him.

Avoid this by spitting on the tip and using your mouth to spread it all over his dick. Your mouth needs to feel as good as your pussy does.

This might come off as gross and messy but to be honest, the Messi-er, the better.

Keep it wet and sloppy.

• Enthusiasm

It shouldn’t feel like you are being forced to do it.

You should want it as bad as he wants it. You are on your knees because you personally want to please him and not because he wants it. It shouldn’t feel like a chore.

Add some passion to it.

Make sounds when you slurp on his dick; moan or groan. It also gives a feeling that you enjoy it as well, plus it's one hell of a turn on.

• Make Eye Contact

This is literally looking at him enjoy the pleasures you are giving him.

Indirectly you are getting to know what he likes just by staring at him.

Pay attention to how he reacts to the things you do. Watch his body movements, listen to his moans.

In this instance, don’t be afraid to stare.

• Do Not Put Pressure On Him To Cum

True, it can be extremely tiring trying to please a man that doesn’t want to cum.

If he hasn’t cum yet and you catch yourself getting tired, don’t panic.

You can switch to 69, where you have your pussy in his face so that he eats you out as you suck his dick, or something else that can be more engaging.

Don’t. Pressure. Him. To. Cum.

If you do, it kills the mood, and he won’t.

• Swallow(Optional)

Girls, this is totally your call.

If you don’t feel comfortable with this, you aren’t obliged to let him cum in your mouth.

If you are, a secret behind it might be not tasting it but swallowing as soon as it gets in your mouth.

This is where your imaginations should come to play. Imagine it's ice-cream, or yoghurt and swallow it like the big girl you are 😉😉.

You get to decide.

Spit or Swallow. Either way, you can't go wrong.

That's all folks.

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