LAW 10: Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.
People's emotions and energy rub off on everything they touch. Be vigilant and keep away from damaged people lest you be damaged as well.
The solutions to problems others create you can find with yourself.
People's emotions and energy rub off on everything they touch. Be vigilant and keep away from damaged people lest you be damaged as well.
The solutions to problems others create you can find with yourself.
1. Who you surround yourself with you become.
2. Happiness is a mirage. Inner work and principled consistency in how you relate to the world are the only source of “stability” in life.
Consistent satisfaction comes from your actions, not from conditions, which are always changing.
Consistent satisfaction comes from your actions, not from conditions, which are always changing.
3. Look in the mirror before you point the finger.
NEWSFLASH!
If people universally avoid you, it's not them – it's you.
If you're consistently unhappy, it's not the world – it's you.
Take responsibility for your own fate.
If people universally avoid you, it's not them – it's you.
If you're consistently unhappy, it's not the world – it's you.
Take responsibility for your own fate.
If you’re unhappy with your friends and family, look to yourself first.
Are you toxic? Do you invite toxicity?
Cut off toxic people and the behaviors that attract them to you.
Are you toxic? Do you invite toxicity?
Cut off toxic people and the behaviors that attract them to you.
You make your own luck by leaning into persistent improvement.
If someone's consistently unlucky, that’s a red flag that the person doesn’t understand this simple principle or is too incompetent to put it to work.
Keep away from unlucky people and habits that make you unlucky.
If someone's consistently unlucky, that’s a red flag that the person doesn’t understand this simple principle or is too incompetent to put it to work.
Keep away from unlucky people and habits that make you unlucky.
4. Bad luck often signals bad judgement.
Avoid people with bad judgement. It will rub off on you, and you'll find yourself liable for their bad decisions, sucked into an energy sink.
Lo-awarenes and spurious thoughts are virulent – just look at Twitter.
Avoid people with bad judgement. It will rub off on you, and you'll find yourself liable for their bad decisions, sucked into an energy sink.
Lo-awarenes and spurious thoughts are virulent – just look at Twitter.
5. You CAN manage and direct others’ emotions, but that takes energy and mastery of Mind.
It’s seldom worth it to get entangled in others' problems.
Set your own betterment as the default priority and never make compromises with that principle.
It’s seldom worth it to get entangled in others' problems.
Set your own betterment as the default priority and never make compromises with that principle.
6. If someone needs your help, make it explicit and ask for sacrifice.
Impose conditions and demand real action before committing.
Impose conditions and demand real action before committing.
If you’re too lazy to help yourself and indulge in victimhood, no-one else’s help will do much good.
Don’t waste your energy on self-saboteurs.
If you want to pay it forward, direct your gratitude to people with High Potential and Commitment.
Don’t waste your energy on self-saboteurs.
If you want to pay it forward, direct your gratitude to people with High Potential and Commitment.
People who are always unhappy usually are looking for external validation and skimping on the inner work.
They don’t have a mission and principles to lead their own life.
They are steered by circumstances.
They are reactive.
Such weakness will infect you and poison your life.
They don’t have a mission and principles to lead their own life.
They are steered by circumstances.
They are reactive.
Such weakness will infect you and poison your life.
7. This law is not easily applied in reverse. Many sociopaths appear successful, but they will drain your energy – and your bank account.
Hone your instincts and learn to avoid them.
Take the path to High Awareness.
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Hone your instincts and learn to avoid them.
Take the path to High Awareness.
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