One like = one really bad sign you can get on a date.
All stories are real, a lot are mine, some are from trusted friends.
This is never a good sign. It can be turned around if you know beforehand and you frame it as "bring a hot friend for my friend". But it's always better to date one on one.
That happened to a veteran friend of mine in Kiev who made a rookie mistake and he let her choose the restaurant. Never let her choose.
On the bright side, once he seen the menu, he left before she arrived. Obvious golddigger
"I was about to meet with them after our date, so let's all meet for drinks." It's not like she wants you to meet her friends. It means you're fucked.
That actually happened to me once in my lifetime. I laughed so hard because it was pretty standard date that wasn't great but it also wasn't bad.
When that happens, just delete the number.
If I invite, I'm going to pay, regardless if it's a date or a business meeting. But if you ask to make sure I'll pay - fuck off.
Have some self-respect. Go home or go to the venue and start drinking.
Those girls are awful.
I don't have anything against people who don't drink but it's a bad sign.
I know that you should learn her logistics but come on...
If she talks too much about sex, you can be certain that talking is her upper limit.
Don't follow her. It's a trap.
It's okay if you pay at one venue and she pays at the other. If she wants to split everything, she might consider you only as friend.
It's obvious, she's still into him. It can be a good sign if you want to be her rebound guy but nevertheless, it's so annoying...
"Sit here." "Okay."
"Come closer." "Okay."
"Let's go to my place." "Okay."
Beware, the streak is going to end and some point and you won't know how to react. It will be awkward.
She's either lazy or not taking you seriously. Cut the date short.
She's going to complain all date. End after first drink if she's no fun. Don't waste time on negative people.
It tells a lot about her and not necessarily good things.
It might be okay if you're religious as well but if you're not - run away.
Going to a club if you're already on a one-on-one date is a bad move. Besides, it's like saying "I need other people, you're not enough".
It's fine if it's date number one. But if she tries to pull that off for second or third date, she's not thinking about going to bed with you.
For fucks sake, you're supposed to be learning something about each other before you end up in bed.
If she doesn't ask any questions about you, she's not interested. Period.
It can be a shit test but it definitely is a sign she's a cuckoo.
As with negative girls - just stop wasting your time.
So, let's do one about escalation. If she can't stand your touch you're either moving too fast or you're already done. Touch is important.
"Don't stick your dick in crazy."
There goes your lay...
I really would like to see the look on my friend's face when that happened.
I would just walk away, no words.
Definitely do not go to her. Either cancel the date or wait for her in the bar.
I don't care if it's 2018, leave your phone in your purse.
I say "tries" because you should know that you are not her shopping assistant.
Now that can be okay if you never said it to her (that happens) but if she doesn't remember your name, she doesn't care that much.
There goes adventure bubble...
And it is irrelevant that it rains or snows.
It's okay if she turns away her head. "It's my job to try, it's your job to resist."
But if she's surprised that means the vibe is way off and you're probably in the friendzone.
No kiss on the cheek? No "thank you for the evening"? No "see you soon"?
Fuck off, golddigger. My friend actually left her standing on the street.
Crazy. Kick her out and lock the doors.
This can be a very good sign if it's an invitation but if she's living with her parents, you know you won't get anything.
Walk her to the nearest bus stop where buses go her way.
I hope you will never meet a girl who has absolutely nothing going on in her life. I did.
Taking a posh chick into a dark and murky bar is a fun thing to do. But if she complains, this isn't going to work.
Flirting is in some part making fun of her and putting her in boxes she doesn't want to be in.
If she can't laugh about herself, good luck with that.
I have seen girls who apparently never paid for anything on their dates. "You're late, you're buying first round" was too much for them.
Now, come on! You don't know why are you on a date? Time-waster!
Apparently, you already failed. Don't waste more time on her.
Translation: "I'm going to waste a lot of your time and then sleep on the first date with a guy I actually fancy."
Talking too much about sex is bad because it usually leads to nothing. However, if she can't even stand the word "sex", that's a bad sign.
That being said, if she admits that she had over a hundred partners, it's a bad sign.
If you're into that, go bananas - it's a good sign. If you're after anything more than sex - it's a red flag.
It can happen if it's the first venue on the first date. But if it happens later, bad sign. Think about har far is from sitting next to each other to having sex.
There are a lot of nice, feminine girls out there. Don't waste your time on her.
Just laugh. LOUD.
Too fast. It's too fast. Even if you'd eventually want it, first few dates is not the time for that talk.
Hey, it's snowing! But she doesn't want to go ice-skating, she doesn't want to throw snowballs at each other and building a snowman is out of the question. Boooriiiing.
She won't focus on you, she'll be staring at her phone whole night. She won't even remember you.
Always make sure she knows that after the fun part, you're going for drinks or to your place.
"Where do you live?" "See that building over there?" "Yes." "There."
It's playful. She should laugh. Any offence should be a fake-pretend one. It's not a big deal.
Good for you and goodbye!
It's not going to be a pleasant date.
I invite - I choose.
If you're not even in a relationship and she's already nagging you, it won't be any better later.
I'm not saying it will definitely go bad but it really can go bad.
Just as it won't go well if she asks you how many followers do you have on Instagram.
That being said, if she "runs out of things to say", she's not a very interesting person and/or you're not a great conversationalist. It won't work.
That being said, if she brings up thoughts of death & dying, that's a bad sign." - @DaxThoughts
If she's taking pictures for the Instagram while on a date, then you know what's more important to her. Even if it's not really a bad sign in general, a lot of guys hate those girls.
When you joke or tell her about things you're going to do in an unspecified future, she should play along. She shouldn't seriously ask you "why do you think there will be a second date?"
Guess who's going to have limited time and on top of that is going somewhere on that very evening.
It's a "you're not good enough for me" talk and you should either treat it as a shit test or just cut the date short.
She probably wants to friendzone you, therefore she only engages in "safe" and friendly topics. Call her out on that.
Just tell her that the most important moment in online dating is meeting in person and you already know you won't hit off. Say goodbye and leave.
Prepare for a challenge. If she wants to hide you from her mother, then it's going to be a logistics nightmare.
One word: crazy.
She was at the meeting place but went home because you were going to be 10 minutes late? Bulled dodged.