If you think about something enough times, you’ll effectively reprogram yourself to think that way.
This is how negative people miss opportunities. They train themselves to avoid solutions.
They consistently emphasize a lack of victimhood—that whatever happens to them is a consequence of a failure on their part.
That mindset trains their brains to look for opportunities, no matter how scarce.
Why?
Because that’s the part they can change to make sure it never happens again.
That is their cross to carry.