I recalled sometimes in June this yr, I was told a particular Lady betrothed her dota to her friend's son in Kaduna, the girl was 15 while the guy was 29, the hope of both Mums was by January 2019 the pair will be married.
I asked them why they can't wait until d girl turn 18?
I asked them why they can't wait until d girl turn 18?
They said she can turn 18 in her husband's house, in fact she's writing waec in his house self that after waec he will decide if she will further her education or become a full time house wife
I felt sad & asked them why does her future depends on him?
I felt sad & asked them why does her future depends on him?
They said bcos she's his wife, so I reminded them that assuming he impregnates' her & she ended up having VVF bcos she's a teenager, who will suffer the consequences? The girl or the Man?
The Guy's mum told me they can do family planing until she's 18😢
The Guy's mum told me they can do family planing until she's 18😢
I'm like if she's not fully prepared for child birth why do you think she's fully prepared for sex?
I simply looked at the girl's mother & told her "if you don't value the life of your daughter, what's my own after all u will stay with her in the hospital alone"
I simply looked at the girl's mother & told her "if you don't value the life of your daughter, what's my own after all u will stay with her in the hospital alone"
The mother told me "aniyan ki yabiki" which means "may I thoughts follow me" I smiled & told her I can't have VVF bcos I got married as an adult it's her daughter that's having an uncertain future not me.
Later I learnt the marriage was suspended indefinitely!!!....
Later I learnt the marriage was suspended indefinitely!!!....
