(still with me? ok!)
i found myself looking back on that interaction and marveling in how easy it was, what a *relief* it was. there are all kinds of ways it could have not worked for her to join us -- sync and fit are especially tricky at high levels.
(i do have liz's permission to share this btw 😉)
i'm not proud of this. but i would have. 😔
my subconscious was def sexist, so i paid closer attention and tried to override it whenever it flared up.
it's so rewarding, every little bit of fuckery you manage to dislodge gives you more authentic access to humanity.
"When the facts change, I change my mind. And what do YOU do, sir?"