Thread by @yasmeen006

Brothers and sisters Assalamu Alaikum.

Just like I promised to drop a thread about the rise in domestic violence in the North (Kano) to be precise.
Well here it is & I'll Insha Allah try to be balanced on both parties.

I stand to be corrected as well. Let's begin
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THREAD!!!

Series of events have been happening pertaining this issue, from women stabbing their husbands, others actually killing their husbands & now disgustingly a "WOMAN" pouring hot water on her husband's private part bcoz he wants to take a second wife!!!

innallillahi wainailaihi rajiun, A kasar Hausa, a kasar musulinci a na irin wanna shedanci Sai kace yahudawa.

Women I'm dissapointed!!!
Women I'm disgusted!!!
Women I'm infuriated!!!

It seems we've forgotten our status in society, where is the prestige?

we gave birth to "men"
We're sisters to "men"
We're wives to "men"
We're grandmother's to "men"
We've fathers as "men"
We've brothers, uncles, cousins etc all are "men"

If you think for a sec dat if u harm a man & karma will not befall on your son "yarinya kinyi karya"....

wallahil azim your precious son will suffer the same fate.
Mata kunbada mata
Kun zubar mana da aji

Thanks to you, a vacuum has been created for us single ladies.
How can a man trust the institution of marriage after you have dehumanize it.

Imagine serving your husband dinner and he ask u to taste it first because he is afraid u might kill him😭😭😭😭

We're no longer queens but a threat,
A wolf in sheep's clothing.
Imagine a society where men are cautions of marriage cz there're afraid one day you might stab them🤦

However it takes to to tango, we both know something is definitely wrong.
What is causing this pandemic?

1. MEDIA- I sincerely blame the media, publicizing this menace is not helping, in fact it's spreading the virus just like kidnapping. Y'all don't care about...

The adverse effects, y'all just want to make news, spread gossip, in just few weeks how many incidents do we've after the Hannan Saga.

Its high time you realize publicity has a price, and society pays for it dearly. It not every news that is worth reporting.

2. Men hmm "MAZA" I call unto you, this is a sign for you to know some of you have failed women, in bera da sata daddawa da wari.

I love you men, but I'm sorry to say a lot of men have forgotten their status as men.

You're out fathers I will be damned to see you hurt but guys need to change, go to shariah courts and see a battered wife assaulted by the father of her children,

Men that beat their wives what is you aim in life? A rare trait of a Hausa man.

where is your tolerance?
I remember my grandad fetching water & firewood for his wive before he goes to work.

Samarin yanzu will Sai ita me takeyi.
What is happening in modern day marriage institution?

Men y'all need to step up, wallahi muna ruwa

what is baffling is conceding that women do engage in acts of domestic violence, female use of violence is justified as self-defense A lifesaving reaction of women who are being physically attacked by their male partners.
So if we don't protect our sons who will?

Domestic violence is domestic violence a man or a woman can be abused y'all should stop this stupid double standard is disgusting.

3. Forced marriages- this is major major factor I wish a law punishing parents against this should be enacted, fgs why would you force your child to marry someone she doesn't want all in the name I know what's best for her. This is a hideous menace to our society.

Finally I will end on this note, in kunne yaji, jiki ya tsare.

Ladies is better to spray your husband pepper spray or hit him with a frying pan and run than killing him, he does you go to jail, is he worth life imprisonment? Ask yourself.