[medical story thread]
So I figured I’d go old school and just let her talk. I just kept following up with curiosity questions whenever she seemed done with a topic: Why? Then what happened? What were you thinking? Tell me more...
Every time, I think “this is silly but I know it’s supposed to work.”
I had her do those neuro mental gymnastics tests. I even had her remember 3 objects: ball flag and tree.
All her stories had been about loss of control. Insecurity. Being manipulated and dominated by others. Fear of mean people and inability to leave because of financial and other pressures.
I was told later she got a lot better with the right treatment.
1) call people “crazy” when they are organically ill and
2) do endless tests to find a anatomical, hormonal, infectious or malignant problem when the problem is somewhere in the DSM book.
I hope I am getting better and making fewer mistakes with time.