Say what you feel, dare to be honest, and communicate as clearly as you can. You'll engage your table, audience + its fun!
I'm glad that this resonates with folks. It's something that took me a bit to get comfy with because I thought it was selfish or "stealing spotlight" but in reality saying your needs, wants and fears is strong AF both at the table and in life
The reason I separated this out as advice for performers is because not everyone who plays TTRPGs wants to dive into the heavy RP side. And that's OKAY!