You come out on your terms and at your own time. No one gets to pressure you to come out or not come out.
Deciding you don't want to come out is perfectly good and valid. Just respect others' truth.
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#ComingOutDay
A pansexual person is attracted to any gender with the same caveats.
Bi/pan men who date and marry women are still bi/pan.
A bi/pan person who has never dated someone of the same gender is still bi/pan.
A bi/pan person who only dates someone of the same gender is still bi/pan.
"Transgender" is an umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or expression is different from cultural expectations based on the sex they were assigned at birth.
Folks who are "non-binary" may identify as being both a man and a woman, somewhere in between, or as falling completely outside these categories.
Not all non-binary folks identify as transgender.
Sexual orientation describes inherent + enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.
Gender identity is one’s innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither.
Please stop conflating trans women and gay men. Two very different groups.
Stop conflating trans men and lesbians and/or queer women. Very different groups.
For example, someone who identifies as a woman, cis or trans, may present in ways not perceived by some as "conventionally female".
They're still a woman.
They're still non-binary.
Gender identity and expression are on an infinite spectrum. Respect folks' truth.
A person who is aromantic does not have a romantic attraction for other people but may have a sexual or emotional one.
Saying simply "gay and trans" erases whole swathes of our community, and that's not okay.
A queer person who is celibate is still queer.
Anyone who tells you that an LGBTQ person has to have certain interests (or not have certain interests) is a gatekeeping asshole.
Being LGBTQ does not dissolve one's white privilege, male privilege, able-bodied privilege, etc.
Guess which group faces the highest rates of violence and discrimination today? Trans women of color, particularly Black trans women.
Know the history.
Aside from Dolly Parton, no one person speaks for the LGBTQ community.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
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