Dear Arewa men,
Wallahi this life is a horror movie. If husbands will rise from the grave & see how their wives & children are being treated, they will wish their supported their education & development while still alive. Here are few reality checks for you when you are no more
Wallahi this life is a horror movie. If husbands will rise from the grave & see how their wives & children are being treated, they will wish their supported their education & development while still alive. Here are few reality checks for you when you are no more
The mother of your kids will be subjected to living hell. She is used to only you providing. She doesn't know how to do anything by herself for your children. She will go to your friends, family & be begging for food! Your kids in that expensive private school will drop.
That your son studying in U.K will come back & be struggling with registration fees in a state university. Those beautiful flowers in your house can't be maintained. Common flowers! This can all happen 2 months after you die. You think all those people around you are all friends?
Yes, I know you want to be a good husband & provide everything they need. But even while you are still alive you can lose everything. You might end up being spoon fed on a wheel chair. Or you might lose that precious job. Wallahi in 1 day you can turn from millionaire to nothing.
Lose everything & see who will stand by your side apart from your wife & kids. That your phone that rings 1000x daily will now ring 2 times at most in a day. The call will probably be from your children. That your living room that fills up with guests will be so hollow & empty!
These are some of the things you will see while you are still alive and breathing. Imagine when you are gone! I know a family that presented a different person as son to the family lawyer when the man died. Your lawyer doesnt even know your children? Or your wife? Well done Sir.
I know another who absconded with death benefits of his elder brother. We are talking about millions of naira. Like I said, wallahi this life is like a horror movie. At least if your next of kin is your wife there is high tendency that she will take care of your mother and kids.
You keep your finances classified secret & you dont tell anyone. Your policy of my wife cant know my income will not backfire now. You keep millions with people & there is no record. You trust no one but yourself. The day you die, only very few good people will return your wealth
You cant marry a medical doctor & keep her in the house & expect your mother or wife to be treated by a female doctor. You cant marry a 1st class graduate & lock her in the house! She has a million roles to play in developing our society. Read on the roles women played in Islam.
Dear arewa man, these are just few reality checks. The uncertainties in this life is beyond any model or your calculations. Islam is a complete way of life. Follow its teachings. Be kind & just to your wives. Develop & educate her. Educating 1 woman is educating an entire nation
