Thread by @ShadayaKnight

LADIES & MARRIAGE

Long Thread👉🏻No woman in her early 30s should cry about not being married. Females in their 20s will attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

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1. I'm too young for that
2. Who cares about marriage
3. I'm focused on my books
4. I want to make money 1st
5. Marriage is full of problems

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

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But at the same time these girls will be having series of sex relationships with many guys. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with guys. No problem, time is ticking. At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions

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1. Don't you have any one yet ?
2. Are you not planning to get married ?
3. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
4. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking & asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. This guy I'm with isn't even serious

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Well, God knows the best. I believe in God. Now she's just involved God in this. She has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" They now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex & play with. They will start looking for serious relationships

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But unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 marriage proposal are less. That's when you will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone. It is at this age that you'll now hear them saying "age does not matter"

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My sister, it matters a lot. Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 & your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too. Remember you rejected men because you thought you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us? 👇🏽

Now they are in the 30s that's when they become "feminists" you'll hear them saying "marriage is not an achievement" ... okay if it's not an achievement why do you talk about it daily reminding us that it's not an achievement.

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At this age her friends will ask her:

1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?

2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her replying by asking some silly questions like:

1. Are you God?
2. Is it a crime to be single at 30?

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At this age, they'll start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. Even, dressing decently. Oh yes by now they'll no longer be saying "my body, my rules" If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say: "If you truly love me go & see my parents"

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Parents, she has started knowing their worth. When she was younger, she was doing everything without considering em. Let's be honest with each other, you don't expect a young man of 35 & below to marry you in your not so younger age when there are younger pretty girls out there

Everything in life has its own season & time. There's no lady right now in her 30s seeking for marriage who wasn't approached by a marriage proposal during her 20s. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE

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Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will now be busy planning for your younger sister. 😴😴😴