Thread by @babajideedges

Let’s talk about something i termed the ‘anti-derailing mechanism’. It’s more like the intimate back watching in relationship / marriage. This is not monitoring, it’s a form of check and balance when you trust, believe & respect each other’s capacity and sense of judgement...

...It’s mutual receptiveness of vetting each other’s boundary especially for men.

Dear Great Guy, what you can’t see even when you use the biggest available binocular, your woman can see while snoring. I know you ain’t no kid & you don’t plan on cheating on your woman but...

...this strange friend of yours got motives. Her major scheme is probably to steal your woman’s place.
What you can’t see, your woman sees already. Everything is not jealousy, learn to be receptive to her ideas, the intuitive intelligence of a woman is unbelievably accurate...

...albeit not always.

Heyss Uncle...Yes You ! I know you are dedicated & i know you rate yourself as an upright dude, but look deeper, don’t you think you are unconsciously allowing friendship & professionalism to slip through your romantic boundary ? You are human, listen...

...to your woman’s suggestion, it would help prevent your later tussle with your erection. Are you doing enough to secure your territory ? Ask yourself truthfully.
Gone are the days of corny use of temptation, what we have today are authoritative and daring schemes, be weary!

Dear Confident Lady, i know you believe that nobody can snatch your man and furthermore, you believe the popular saying that says, “A man that don’t wanna be snatched, can never be snatched” but trust me, they are already snatching men that don’t wanna be snatched in many...

..careless cases of today.
Unlike most men, you have amazing extra features which are your instinct and intuition, don’t just look away when danger approaches.
If this man is all worthy, your are his extra wings of sanity during the derailing waves of unforeseen circumstances.

Don’t get me wrong, this is no case of fighting for a community d!ck (A man that don’t wanna be kept), No ! this is about looking out for your upright partner / spouse ( A Man that’s committed to being kept ) from the wolves and marital vultures.

Watch his boundary when...

...necessary. Offer your counsel firmly and wisely not jealously or confrontationally - allow him to trust your counsel early enough than to tussle later in quarrel - Iron sharpeneth iron they say, right ?

Take note that that this Man is not just appealing to your eyes, heart...

...and soul alone, many are desiring him as well !
As we write, someone somewhere is currently scheming on how to snatch an amazing man from his spouse. Someone somewhere is currently investing in a grand voodoo to detach a lovely husband and father from his family.

I know you have God but are you willing to do your part ?
I write this from a personal experience, it’s a cold world out there and It’s mostly a dog eat dog situation on this street. Watch each other‘s back & protect yours. Marital sustainability thrives in receptiveness built...

...within intentionality to commitment.

Never you forget: many are angry just because you have it blissful. Never forget that many are willing to walk brutally & majestically through the path that got wet with your tears just to selfishly take your position.

B R A C E U P !