Sadly this is as much the doctors job as it is the patient job
A thread to make the best out your medical consultation fee.
A discussion about something to be decided.
Doctors finesse their consultation skills as they gain experience, some faster than other.
So don't go about looking for a doctor with best consulting skills. Work with your doctor, play your own role
Most of them come unprepared and end up being interrogated rather than conversing with their doctor.
Let give an example
Me: so what can I do for you today?
Patient (P): I don't know what is wrong with me
Me
Me: what brings you to the hospital today?
P: Doc, I have headache?
Me: Tell me about this headache
P: All I know is that I have headache, it is just there in my head.
So I set out to know what was the difference
Some don't even understand how their symptoms has changed or affected them
Pick the one you are most concerned about (what about the others you ask, don't worry you will get to them)
For that symptom, you are most concerned about, think about it, how long ago has it started, where is it located
a) any recent illness (within a month) that bears similarities with your present complaint, what the diagnosis was, what investigations done
b) Major organ illness like Asthma, Epilepsy, Diabetes, Heart disease e.g. Heart Attack/Failure, Liver Failure, Kidney dis/Failure
It is best to state when this diagnosis were made, if you are seeing a doctor about them or not, if you are on any medication for them and how stable you are.
You should also tell your doctor any medication you are taking regularly and what they are for, the dosages and how often you use them. Best if you can even bring them to the hospital with you.
Your expectations might be modified your doctor.
I means, 6 months headache and you expecting cure. I'll modify it to understanding why you having persistent headache
When a doctor gets a diagnosis wrong... He goes back to the basic.... YOUR HISTORY. THE DIAGNOSIS IS ALWAYS IN THE HISTORY