So today's thread is about pursuing your dreams.
No, it's not easy. But that doesn't mean don't do it.
These are also the moments when I strayed farthest from my dreams.
Hint - I was light-years away from it.
Totally far out.
I open the office. I sit down at this laptop. And I will spill my guts, my heart, and my brain to anyone who might be out there.
You want to write a book.
You want to be a good adult.
You want to see Vienna.
Having the dream isn't the problem - it's the doing something.
You can't write that book ... you don't know how to start.
You can't go to Vienna, you're in Idaho.
But your brain is firing all these chemical electric messages of doubt and fear because it expects the distance between here and there to be huge and difficult.
I know.
But Vienna's the goal.
Or you get up twenty minutes earlier to write because that book is in your head and it deserves to be on pages somewhere.
Yes, it sucks to not have the candy or to be awake. Yes, changing your schedule is hard.
But the goal's worth it, right?
Young me was also frequently high.
Now me will tell you that many obstacles are of your own design, and adaptation and progress are extraordinary.
The four minutes before I open the office. The four minutes I take to gather all my ducks in a row and get my head on straight.
The four minutes where I have to stop thinking about what's wrong and find my goal.
Even if that comfortable space is all applesauce.
It's all bullshit.
Maybe that means you prune the social media.
Maybe that means you make a new effort to start or stop doing something.
Maybe that means you gotta choose every day at 8:55 in the morning not to give up.
But everyone's gotta first come to that point where they choose they're gonna take the steps forward.
Not the numbers, not the metrics, not checking the bank account once every 11 minutes. Those are my traps. I found them because I looked for them.
I mean goals. On the page.
Horseshit.
But impatience about a goal is what keeps you from getting there.
It's not about "Am I good enough" it's "Do I know what step I can take today, and am I going to take it?"
Courage. Choice.
With a good plan, with patience, with effort, you can accomplish anything.
We put people on the fucking moon. We painted ceilings. We invented froyo and the potato skin.
It's possible, one step at a time.
And yet here I am, putting socks in a suitcase.
It's a thing you guys.
But I have this goal, so I'm going for it.
Yes.
But I'm not there yet, so I'm not doing them yet.
See today's blogpost - writernextdoor.com/think-short-pl…
for more.