(THREAD-ish)
Making sure that your ambition matches the one with whoever you're working with saves you from disagreements down the line. If you're working towards the same result, it helps encouraging the other to do cool things.
All of us in CNS were good friends for a year or two before we embarked on our joint effort. This made sure we already knew each other to know what we like, what we want, how we work in good times or bad times or under pressure.
Knowing what each individual in the project was capable of when they give it their best helped us set a goal that was realistic but also ambitious. We were aiming higher than what we normally did, but we also knew all of us would give 110% for the others.
Because we knew what the others could and couldn't, all of us stayed in our lanes and assumed that the other person is doing what they're doing because they knew best. No one was expendable, and we made sure each of their decisions counted as much as ours did.
This is the best part. The idea that there are people working in parallel on distinct sections of the same project is a fantastic feeling.
Every day you can wake up to something really cool that was just added to the same thing you've been working on.
We were familiar and loose friends before CNS. The process of working together in secret on something awesome also meant that we were able to open up a bit more to each other and become even closer friends.
It's hard to summarize because none of this was conscious; all of this just sorta "happened" to us, but in the end it all boiled down to us wanting to do the same cool things and finding other people who wanna do the same.
You should too.
[come to @functiondemo pls]