Thread by @sextalkwithdrm

This is a reminder to parents discussing this #COZA issue in their homes. Your children are listening to your stance. They can tell if you'll be able to handle it or not.

So a child right now is making the decision to keep quiet so he/she won't ruin your 'perfect family'

This is a good time to openly start this sexual abuse conversation with your children. Let them know that predators can take any form. Abusers are regular people who do evil things. Ask them about it and be ready to listen. Dont blame them, dont 'poke holes' in their story.

Your child's health and safety should matter more than "Your family image" more than "what people will say".

Be on your child's side and be present. When your child starts acting strange, care about it, ask questions. Sudden Withdrawal or rebellion are early signs.

Our children and wards need to know they have safe spaces in us.
And it starts with how we parent them & how we react to issues like this #busoladakolo story.

Already, some abused children know their parents will blame them or believe their uncle/religious leaders over them.