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@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 Ooo that’s another angle. Most of the many I know had boyfriends who told them just like a wart removal and I guess all being young it’s what was believed. Bit of a wake up when you actually have children and realise....
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 and so those were “no choice” situations coz the girls a.) didn’t want to do it alone and felt there was no alternative (no choice) and b.) were conditioned to think of it as nothing then all were confused when they felt so upset & sad, then told they were irrational and stupid.
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 Another ‘no choice’ was married and the father didn’t want the expense on top of the couple of kids they had, ‘we can’t afford it, but your choice’. Lousy choice
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 Another had a boyfriend & wanted to keep by he was too weak to stand with her & explain to her eastern European family how she could even be pregnant. she was furious, first the baby, followed by dumping the bloke. Common pattern, poor girl lousy way to find discover a louse man.
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 Another always thought she would abort, been told bunch of cells, it’s nothing. But then she went to a support team & got reliable information on what her 11 week old Bub looked like & no way would abort, the dad stepped up & supported so -good one
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 Lastly, the point I would make tirelessly is that for choice to be real, a man needs to be proactive delighted to be a dad & let her know he will go al the way. Only then is it a non-forced choice.
@catedempsey @lass_rad @moongirlmusing @familyfirstnz @mirandadevine @RitaPanahi @826Maureen @KiwiCraig74 And that “Last” example is the only real rational objection to requiring male vasectomy if his baby is aborted. Strangely, though thought was provoked, none of the complainants on this thread managed to think of a very thought-out objection to ✂️ 🤷♂️
